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A wake-up call for a national crisis in parenting--and a deeply helpful book for those who want to see their own behaviors as parents with the greatest possible clarity.Harvard psychologist RichardWeissbourd argues incisively that parents--not peers, not television--are the primary shapers of their children's moral lives. And yet, it is parents' lack of self-awareness and confused priorities that are dangerously undermining children's development.

Through the author's own original field research, including hundreds of rich, revealing conversations with children, parents, teachers, and coaches, a surprising picture emerges.

Parents' intense focus on their children's happiness is turning many children into self-involved, fragile conformists.The suddenly widespread desire of parents to be closer to their children--a heartening trend in many ways--often undercuts kids'morality.Our fixation with being great parents--and our need for our children to reflect that greatness--can actually make them feel ashamed for failing to measure up. Finally, parents' interactions with coaches and teachers--and coaches' and teachers' interactions with children--are critical arenas for nurturing, or eroding, children's moral lives.

Weissbourd's ultimately compassionate message--based on compelling new research--is that the intense, crisis-filled, and profoundly joyous process of raising a child can be a powerful force for our own moral development.

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A wake-up call for a national crisis in parenting--and a deeply helpful book for those who want to see their own behaviors as parents with the greatest possible clarity.Harvard psychologist RichardWeissbourd argues incisively that parents--not peers, not television--are the primary shapers of their children's moral lives. And yet, it is parents' lack of self-awareness and confused priorities that are dangerously undermining children's development.

Through the author's own original field research, including hundreds of rich, revealing conversations with children, parents, teachers, and coaches, a surprising picture emerges.

Parents' intense focus on their children's happiness is turning many children into self-involved, fragile conformists.The suddenly widespread desire of parents to be closer to their children--a heartening trend in many ways--often undercuts kids'morality.Our fixation with being great parents--and our need for our children to reflect that greatness--can actually make them feel ashamed for failing to measure up. Finally, parents' interactions with coaches and teachers--and coaches' and teachers' interactions with children--are critical arenas for nurturing, or eroding, children's moral lives.

Weissbourd's ultimately compassionate message--based on compelling new research--is that the intense, crisis-filled, and profoundly joyous process of raising a child can be a powerful force for our own moral development.

• 作者：renardyy 发布时间：2024-03-14 14:07:40

  不是很可靠

• 作者：长门有希的消逝 发布时间：2020-08-13 12:42:42

  个人皆有其历史局限性。对了解美国移民和种族问题历史，是不错的科普书目。

• 作者：大草原 发布时间：2015-09-22 11:36:33

  “你在想什么，科斯季克？”格列布问。 “没想什么......一般地......” 我在想，要是有人对我说，这生活，连同对它的爱，它对真理和幸福的渴望与追求，还有这夜间的闪光和远处哗哗的流水声，都是没有意思，没有意义的，不管是谁这么说，我永远都不会相信。我们每一个人都应该为在到处永远牢固地建立起这样的生活而斗争——直到自己生命的最后一天。 2015.9

• 作者：yo 发布时间：2024-02-23 18:49:35

  爱情中的你我他

• 作者：陆喜庆儿 发布时间：2013-07-22 12:48:54

  老设计。诊所/住宅/办公/酒店

• 作者：闪电虫洞机 发布时间：2016-11-25 12:14:13

  一本职场书能做到诚恳又实用就可以打四星啦！！

• 一点法国 读后感

  作者：卡斐卡 发布时间：2011-01-17 14:07:17

  阴天。环法自行车赛。

  五颜六色的骑手在雨中前行。密密麻麻的雨伞在瞪着天空，花伞、黄伞、黑伞、透明伞……都在对天空说：“难不倒他们的。”

  多乐多姿多彩的生活。

  偶尔我也这样觉得。

  又是一个黄昏，放学的时刻。很多很多人涌出，四面八方散去。有的欢乐，有的哀愁，有的两三个一伙，也有的形单影只。我们都曾有过，却都不同。

  青春年华，只有等彻底老尽，才能感受一二。

  那段娇媚的时光，你曾那么的不在意，能怪谁呢？

  我爱年轻的涂鸦，即使白发苍苍的人与它偶遇，也显得生机盎然。

  还热爱表达，还热爱生活，还相信美好。

  就是美好。

  他选择了一条艰难的路。从家到远方，遥远得让人迷茫。

  可他还是鼓足勇气，生怕离不开，到不了。

  那未知的彼岸。

  他想和秋天拼命。把满院子的落叶一个不留，干干净净。

  事与愿违，他气鼓鼓的。

  又一片叶子飘落。

• 保住我们的家

  作者：蜡笔小新 发布时间：2022-05-20 00:04:18

  当读到推荐序里面一段话的时候，我就肯定读对了。“现代社会，基于性别刻板印象的传统互补型婚姻观念在年轻人中间逐渐解体，新型的平等对称、相互依赖的关系受到推崇。但在这个过程中我们将会面临种种挑战，我们不能说自己很有头绪或早已做好准备。”对于这段话，我早有种通俗理解，像我这个年龄段的大众家庭，老一辈的家庭运转方式我们不认可，但是以西方国家存在的所谓现代方式我们又没模仿到位。就像我们不认可把孩子尿尿，但又嫌尿不湿不透气。仅靠一本书不可能系统解决问题，但是总会发现一种新的途径。

  “不管拿起这本书的你是谁，你都很容易进入这个故事。因为这是最为平实的家庭故事，使每个人都很有代入感。”这也是我真真想说的，无论你是谁 ，处于什么样的家庭，读读这本书都会有收获。因为这是一本属于亲密关系与家庭治疗范畴的书，所以说，如果家庭成员都读，至少是夫妻一起读，效果更好。

  书中从8种角度提供新的视角。作者从家庭整体概念入手，注重系统分析，从建立每个家庭的事儿最初起步开始，年轻人相遇相爱，姻亲背景，新家庭的建立，孩子的加入，家庭分工，忠诚之殇，子女离去，以及子女啃老……每个阶段都能找到一些现实生活的影子。

  我理解全书核心意思是，要想经营好自己的家庭，保持良好的沟通是根本基础，保有充分的信任是核心条件，保留一定的个人空间是必要的。